With over 10,000 members, BlesserClub is by far South Africa’s biggest blesser platform, but please note all content on the website is user generated and unmoderated. We cannot possibly begin to verify every blesser or blessee. Please report abuse to us so we can remove the relevant users, or name and shame them on the ‘Name & Shame’ group. Please note we also do not assist with meet-ups under any circumstance.
Public PlacesBe sensible and meet up in a public place, like a restaurant or bar. Blessers do not meet in back alleys, motels or other shady spots. A classy location is the beginning of a mutually beneficial relationship.
Make Clear Arrangements Be clear about what you’re expecting from your blesser or blessee, and make sure the other party agrees with your terms beforehand. Don’t negotiate when it’s too late.
Safe Sex Always, always, always practice safe sex when you meet with your blesser or blessee. Men who refuse to use condoms do not deserve to be fucked by anyone but other men who refuse to use condoms.